Friday, August 27, 2010

Too many titles!!

Warning : Very long entry & mak mak (alot in Thai) pictures!

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Aiya, i'm so so so ugly & fat but i don't know why i just love to take pictures!! FML man.

This is the flora dress i wore yesterday. And today, i'm also wearing flora dress but black & white de! Heehee (Yes, that's how much i love flora now!)

The dress i'm wearing now, XS has exactly the same piece too!!! And i'm the one who intro-ed her the webby & also the one who purchased it for her! Come to think of it, we have quite a number of same clothings & shoes lor! Wondering why i didn't say she imitate me right? Hmm... Cos she did not mah? We discussed & agreed to buy it together mah. Cos we're as close as sisters, so our taste are somehow similar! :) So, she's not imitating me lor!

You know, just like branded goods lor! There are so many imitations out there! Obviously those imitation companies won't inform the original company that they will be imitating their goods before they imitate right? And that's why they are termed as 'imitation'.

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Once again, thanks to The Sample Store for the mystery gift sent to me! =) Going to try it tonight!!
 
People, do 'like' their facebook page if you wish to enjoy freebies like me!! =D

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Water tumblers for the kids on Raeann's birthday!! =D

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The dinner!!!!!!!!!!!

We settled our dinner at New York New York cos everywhere else need to queue! And yes, I HATE TO QUEUE!! Unless i've to do something important (eg. bank; work), otherwise you will never ever see me standing in a queue for any other redundant stuffs!

But no regrets cos NYNY's food are really delicious & filling (portion really big). And it's very reasonable priced!! I became their member yesterday cos they asked me to sign up lor, so i sign lor! (As usual, i'm easily physco-ed!) Hahaha

Lil' Ashlyn's really so damn adorable!! She's getting friendlier too!! She allowed me to hold her hand and walk!! So cute!

Cos Ashlyn used to be very scare of strangers, even me!! In the past, she will clinged onto her maid, parents or grandma only. So, can you imagine how excited i was? Haha

I'm missing that stage of Raeann!!!

Okay, i don't want to loh-soh liao!! Pictures time!!

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Our hubbys♥ do play a part in looking after them. Thus, the dinner was really enjoyable!! And look at Ashlyn's mouth!! Haha, she was eating ketchup! So cute hor?

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Free candy floss after meal.

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I'm really very happy & proud of my bff!! Now, she's learning very hard to be a good mummy. She's coping & handling it well!! So happy for them!!

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It's been quite some time since we took a pic together!! I asked the waiter to take it for us cos i really don't trust our hubbys♥'s skill!

After he took, i asked him if it's ok anot. He said, "很漂亮"!. Wahahahahaha

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Ashlyn wanted to take the sweet!! Last time Raeann also like that lor!

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The above 2 pics were taken when they were smoking while i take care of the 2 kiddos.

Yes, i'm still smoking but I DON'T SMOKE AT RAEANN'S PRESENCE! (Quick! Praise me for being a good mummy afterall! Hahaha)

I'm not perfect, i know. But i've done my best to be a good mum! Setting good example & spending all my time with her. And that's why i extremely HATE it when people only use their bird brain to think & said that i never look after my daughter. As if they really know that much...

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My Marriage

Okay, i'll disclose abit about my marriage now.

Both me & ZY are trying very hard, doing our part to make this marriage work out. It's all for the sake of our precious child, Raeann. Cos we both loved her too much!

Just when we were about to sign our divorce deed, something cropped up & he went overseas for about a month. (Maybe it's god will?)

And becos he was overseas & he misses Raeann so much but couldn't go and visit her or bring her home on the weekend, he called me very often to look for Raeann.

That's when we started to talk nicely to each other. Then one day, he smsed me, said that he doesn't want to divorce & he promised that he will work hard & buy a house for me and Raeann.

During that time, i was quite confused also, i don't know what to do. So i just leave it to fate & let nature takes it's course lor.

After he's back, we just naturally got back together. Of cos at first will feel very weird & uneasy lah! But then, slowly adapt lor!

Till now, we're still doing very well in maintaining it! Partly maybe becos we're not staying together yet. I don't know what will happen in future when we've our own house but i don't wish to think so much now. Just take it when it comes!

As i said lor, everybody's growing up everyday. After all the hiccups in my marriage & life, i've learnt to take things easy now. I've also learnt to be more independent!!

And so... yah... that's about all!!

Marriage really needs alot of effort & patience to work it out! And of cos, a lil' luck!

Sometimes, it's not that you're not good. Just that your husband's not understanding & tolerance enough. It's your fate & you just gotta accept it!

Don't 'laugh' at other's misfortune when you happened to meet a good & understanding husband who can tolerate you. Cos you won't know what will happen in future. Are you that sure it won't fall on you one day? You know, got karma de!

I hope all my genuine friends & readers will have a happy & blissful marriage!!! =D

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HAHAHA! So random! My eye!! Bloodshot & tired eye!!

Seriously, i don't like my eyes!! I find them too small!! I want to go surgery!!! But i got no guts!!! =(

21 comments:

  1. Babe, I am glad that everything turns out well for you and zy now. I feel real happy for you! You are so right! It takes alot of effort to maintain a marriage and if you are lucky to have a good man, good for you but don't gloat about other's misfortune. I am sure zy will cherish and work hard after having the feeling of almost losing it. It helps to remind everyone not to take things for granted. :)

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  2. Hi babe!

    How are you now?? Everything's well?

    Hanor, hopefully things will be smooth for us now!! And you too!! =D

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  3. OMO, why nowadays your post more & more mushy?

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  4. wa lao, u blog blog so touchin den suddenly post a pic of ur eyes.. such a big pic smmore. 一点都不顺咯. LOL!!!

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  5. Whahahahaha, 还好啦!

    Cos i don't know where to place it liao... Did it scare u off? Cos it's 7th month now. WAHAHAHAHHA

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  6. Mummy, i'm glad tat your marriage is working out. Find one day we'll meet up for lunch again =)

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  7. Thank you mummy! =D

    Yes yes, when your maternity leaves end??

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  8. haha, dun worry la, lylia maternity ends liao she can have another 1 again ma. then will have maternity leaves liao loh. LOL!!!

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  9. -________-||

    Darren ah, giving birth is PAIN leh. Wound takes time to recover de lor.

    And hor, need to look after the kids also lor. Do u wan to look after for her?? ^^

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  10. :( i dun wan. lol. i cant even look after myself liao how to look after a baby. y u can so fast reply de? the blog will notify u if got people comment ma?

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  11. Yeap yeap, i just did the setting. All comments will be sent to my email.

    But just now was cos i was at my laptop lah... Then coincidentally saw your msg!

    My phone can't reply, always hang!!

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  12. hello joanne, i'm very happy for you that your marriage is working out. jia you! i enjoy reading your blog a lot. keep blogging, and stay happy.

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  13. Hihi RL,

    Thanks thanks!! Don't worry, i'll keep on blogging de!! Those nonsenses won't be able to bring me down de! =D

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  14. 恭喜恭喜 I'm really happy that ur marriage turns out positive! Overcoming the past make us a better & happier person!

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  15. Me ok la. Also will have not so good things. See if you have time for dinner someday, we can meet and catch up. :)

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  16. Hi Alice!!

    谢谢你. It indeed took me a long time to learn this. Forgive & forget is not really that easy. =)

    But of cos, both party needs to play their part.

    Don't worry, i've pass that stage le!! =)

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  17. Meiling,

    Okok, i'll contact you via phone. Take care & hope everything will be 顺顺 for u!! =)

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  18. My maternity shld be ending ard mid nov but i'll be taking no-pay leave till end of the year, shld be back to work in jan. Uncle dar dar, you think i'm gonna hv 3rd one, NO WAY, this will be my 2nd & last one. You dunno how exhausing it is to look after a baby & a toddler at the same time!!! It's already gonna take my life looking one baby, only a mummy will know the tiredness!!!

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  19. Dear Lydia mummy,

    你要加油!!!

    Your hard work and effort will be paid off in future!! Don't worry!! When Jayann's older, u'll be more 'sin lang' liao.

    2 is enough le!! Maybe in another 1-2 yrs time, i want to have another daughter. Heehee.

    Don't give me a son, i'll be sad. LOL!

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  20. Mummy, daughter is better. Nowadays, having son will become others after they grow & get marry. Lucky i got a daughter, if not, i'll be drooling at other pple's daughter in future =) You must jia you also.

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