Thursday, May 17, 2012

Be Contented

70% of the people out there are always not contented with what they have. Thus, they're always complaining on what they don't have. Cos they compare, compare & compare, with everyone on everything.

For example; today one of your good friend buy a Chanel bag, tomorrow you MUST buy one also, in order not to lose out. Even when you don't have that amount of money, you resort to borrow, applying bank loan or etc.

FOR WHAT HUH? I don't understand.

To me, all those material things are just wants, not needs. So if i've no money, i won't force to buy one & live on bread for the next few months. It's not as if without that thing, i will die, no! I will only spend when i've extra money. Becos i've learnt how to be contented & is very contented now.

The keyword is, "be contented".

If you're always not contented, you will ONLY focus on what you don't have. And when you can't get what you don't have, you will feel depressed & angry and therefore, every little thing frustrates you. Then you will become very negative, always thinking the whole world & everything are against you. That's when you start to kpkb; everyday. Becos every single minor little thing can annoys u alot.

P/S : These type of people love to compare and they cannot lose one. So if they're rich enough to (always) get what others have, they will become copycats. LOL!

P/P/S : It's okay to (always) buy the same things of cos, but don't keep using the same lame excuse "just a coinciLAN" lah. LOLOL!

But when you know how to be contented, you will appreciate everything you have. When you started appreciating every little things you have, you will be more positive. When you keep staying positive, your life will be more and more awesome each day.

Don't get me wrong, i'm not trying to preach, just some random thoughts.

9 comments:

  1. I fully agree on wAt u say. Be contented. 知足常乐!

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  2. anyway i not contented that you haven blog on ur new hair color lei... (pte) i mean..
    keke...

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  3. Hehe ya lor... I see tat hulala for quite sometime Liao lol!!! Post more mei mei photos leh... Miss her cute face
    :)

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  4. is a random qns and nth to do with ur article, if I offend u in any ways in relation to the qns I am going to ask. I am sorry. Do u think that nowadays ppl judge of others very quickly? When I park my car outside the shopping centre today, a mid age man, with alot of tattoos, looking very rugged and was smoking, he came up to me and said excuse me, do u know if we need to pay for parking here. I keep walking and answered no. He said thank you. After that when I walked into the shop I keep thinking, I shouldn't judge on ppl too quickly at times just bcoz of their look. At the point of time when he walked towards me I thought that he is going to ask me for money and I am alone. Is the same way as I don't like it when ppl judge me too quickly when they first meet me. When I speak to ppl too quickly at times bcoz I was too nervous and ppl straight away give me a look. Maybe is me but my bf think that the ppl give me attitude and think that i can't speak english. I feel so bad.

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  5. Wow~ Didn't expect so many comments...

    Joice and Desiree, i'm so lazy nowadays. So sorry. Soon soon.

    Anonymous, hmm.. i guess alot of people are lidat ba, especially old folks? Cos to them, got tattoo means bad guys mah. Nowadays people are more open-minded liao. I guess u need some PR skill!! :)

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  6. Anonymous,

    Mayb u can try stopping for his/ her qns, but stay abt half metre away, & don look direct into his/ her eyes 1st! (I mean who knows they put black magic)
    Try listen what they wan 1st b4 deciding u wan walk or run away..
    :)
    Hope it helps

    Sorry Joanne, been kaypo to help..

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  7. Anonymous,

    Mayb u can try stopping for his/ her qns, but stay abt half metre away, & don look direct into his/ her eyes 1st! (I mean who knows they put black magic)
    Try listen what they wan 1st b4 deciding u wan walk or run away..
    :)
    Hope it helps

    Sorry Joanne, been kaypo to help..

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  8. Thanks to both of u. I feel that I am like this bcoz My bf and me have been stopped quite a few times by people asking for money like 'do u have $10? or do u have cigarette?. I know this is not an excuse, I will try next time to apply the methods you guys mentioned. Thanks again.

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