Wednesday, November 11, 2015

11/11 A Day to Remember

Let's call for a celebration! Becos... TODAY IS HAPPY SINGLE DAY!!! Yay! I'm just kidding. Becos I collected my HDB keys today.

 
Like finally, a sense of relieve, one load off my mind. I don't have to worry about my income, CPF and loan anymore!!! Renovation wise is okay, I can take as many years as I like to renovate and fill up the furniture. I don't care and don't bother. I even have plan to leave it as it is, bare and empty, just leave it to rot lah. Maybe one day it will grow mushrooms??? Haha

Le' bf, on the contrary, is very happy and excited for me. He wanted to settle the reno for me, while he puts me in charge of all the furniture. Can I just leave everything to him? Cos I don't want to interfere. He can do whatever he likes. 

Anyway, just to clarify, in case people misunderstand, he's not eyeing for my flat, he don't need to and don't have to. I shall not elaborate further.

And well, the flat is mine. I didn't owe anything to anyone. I paid up what I should & took over it lawfully. A $13+k deposit and a wipe out of $90k from my CPF today. Gotten a loan amount of $170k from HDB and gotta slave for the next 30 years. 

Anyway, I read Naomi Neo's blog today.

It's been a long long time since I last visited anyone's blog. Nowadays, blogs are too commercialised, so I sian. 

I found something she wrote which I can't agree more... 

"However, I guess like any other relationship, everything starts to fall apart the moment you love - because inevitably, expectations start coming in, your emotions are heightened and everything that was once a privilege becomes a need."

The start of every relationship is not love and thus, there won't be any expectations, neither any commitment. Things you do for your partner are privileges.

But the moment you love and get committed, just like what she said, inevitably, expectations start coming in, your emotions are heightened and everything that was once a privilege becomes a need.

Haiz...

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