Saturday, February 27, 2016

Haiz, kids.

Caned Raeann just now (very very light only), and she's once again, blaming me for being unfair.

Urghhhhhhhh

1) Meimei is unwell, gotten gastric flu, lao sai more than 20 times over the last two days. She is still feeling grouchy over her painful butt, and unable to eat much. 

2) They fought. (What's new?) Raeann disturbed Meimei by saying want to throw her new shoes, so Meimei took Raeann's new shoes and throw to a corner, then Raeann punched her in her tummy. 

P/S: I bought Raeann TWO pairs of new shoes and Meimei ONE pair online. Meimei didn't fuss nor say anything. But if it's Raeann, she will niam for 3 hours, complaining how unfair I am. 

But the fact is, she's one incontented kid. She thinks that the grass is always greener on the other side. In this case, she's super irritating and always pissing me off. 

I caned her becos she is ALWAYS very violent, ALWAYS using violence to resolve issues. She gives no mercy to her sister at all. I've seen her kicking her very hard off the bed, pushing her flat on the floor etc etc. And when I scolded her, she said I'm unfair. 

Sometimes, I really feel like slapping her. People thought it's easy to handle her, until they kena her CB pattern. (Sorry, I'm honestly fucking pissed.) 

In terms of studies, she gave ENDLESS problems. In terms of attitude, she deserved to be slap sometimes. I seriously hate her resorting to violence. Can it solve any problem? Anger is not an excuse. Think what? When you're angry, you kill/injured people is not an offence ah? THINK. 

You can always use many other methods to kill off the anger, without hurting anyone. 

When I'm really angry, I won't smash, throw, scold or even say anything. (I'll only go shopping, haha!) Becos before I got really angry, I've already said my piece. I'm definitely not a violent person. 

So Raeann, pls, don't ever do that again. I feel so lethargic being your mom, I don't know how to teach and discipline you. Hitting people first is always WRONG, no matter what reason you give. Don't always learn the wrong thing and STILL think you're right.

You know what reason people always give when they hit someone? 

"It's the other person who started it." 

Well. But that person didn't start any fight. Why don't you just blame yourself for not controlling your own anger?
 
You disagreed with what the other party said/done (or even their looks) doesn't mean he/she is wrong. Get this clear. 

And oh, a man should never ever touch a woman, especially his gf/wife, NEVER.

If you've done it and STILL think that is not wrong, then you better go and die. 

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