Thursday, September 14, 2017

Blessing in disguise? 😊

A thousand words spoken. Hahaha! I'm glad he understands. U know how my reputation is being spoilt each time when people play me out? Hahahaha 

Needless to say much. 😊 I'm glad to have understanding dealers and friends. 

Today I had a very enjoyable day. 


Well, not gonna be so 肤浅 and say things like "so glad to have all of you" etc. But I wanna say... "STAY STRONG & HAPPY TOGETHER!" 😊

Tuesday, September 12, 2017

Whose the victim ah?

Wah. Yesterday hor, I'm kan si lang DULAN. Why some people forever like to play the victim card? Make me like I'm a bitch and then hor, I blew up (of cos), then tell me "let it be bygone".

How is this status linked to her in anyway?

The pissed part is, she saw but didn't ask me about it. Sent to her friends instead. Her friend whom know my bf went to msg my bf "your gf got problem?" with this screen shot. 

Like ⓦⓞⓦ. His gf got no problem cos his gf is the problem. 🖕🏻

Everyone in cartrade fucking know that Audi A4's body is crap. NOBODY WANTS. Even my customer also knows that...

So, just stating a honest fact about what I know = I got problem?! 

Say really, who is the problematic one? First of all, I don't see her as a customer cos I already don't feel like doing her business. Secondly, God knows what car she FINALLY decided on, until I deliberately clicked into her profile after this issue broke out, and saw oh, she bought an A4!

You know why I said FINALLY? 

She contacted me last two months, saying she wants BMW 316i. After helping her to liaise with the dealer cos she asked me to, she suddenly changed her mind to another car; BMW 116i...

I didn't push or ask her again, until I received a msg when I was in JB with Ashley. 

As a friend, you msg me, even though I really don't feel like entertaining you cos you haven't make up your mind, I will still make the effort to help you. 

She ownself went to SgCarMart to find hor, and happened that it's one of my dealer. Again, she asked me to ask ask ask ask ask ask.

I warned her many many times about BMW (and honestly, I don't feel like selling cos I'm scared), but she insisted to make an appointment to view the car. 

Fine lor. I helped her to make appointment lor. Then, she changed appointment 2-3 times, LAST MINUTE, and eventually told me, "people said BMW many problem so I decided to not to view liao".  

WTF?! Didn't I tell her that many many times before?!!!?! 

That's the time I decided to stop entertaining her and pass her contact to the dealer and asked him to contact her if he wants. 

All these, I never make a single complaint becos I know this is hiccup of sales job. 

But I've no idea why she play the victim now and act like I've a problem cos??! She didn't buy car from me?! Or what?! 很好笑勒


All these (plus another few more which I'm lazy to find and screen shot) customers are waiting for me! Do you think I care about ONE deal and forgo everyone else issit? 

Becos I didn't voice out then 我又变成坏人啊? Think what? Msging my bf so that he will come and scold me? Or expecting him to think "ya my gf got problem"? Crap. 

I took the gf number from my bf and msg her straight. I also msg the "victim". 

My bf got no control over me becos we mutually respected each other. And he knows me very well. He knows that I'll not deliberately create trouble for anyone. He knows that once I blew up my top, nobody will be able to ease the fire. He knows I know what I'm doing. He knows I already choose to ignore the above mentioned person. 

I'm so angry becos tmd, who is exactly the victim ah? 

Just becos I don't know how to act 可怜 so that people will stand up for me, becos I fuckin' know how to speak up for myself, means I'm forever the bad person issit? 😒 So, good people are those with alot of 小动作 ah? 

Okay, 我念完了! 😂

Yay! Vios is back from respray and ready for handover! This girl bought the third car from me within one year, very thankful for the support. 😊 你一定要很幸福! 

My dealer also very steady, allow her to do full cash, no penalty, no admin charge etc. Very transparent deal! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

Monday, September 11, 2017

Which type are you?

33 years of living, I realised there are two very common types of people in this world.

1) One whom is not fake but often being misunderstood as being fake becos many times, in order not to create any trouble for anyone, they choose not to voice out anything and brush it off if it doesn't affect them at all, becos they know how harsh they can be, and once they voiced out, it will be disastrous. 

However, don't ever expect a single "hello" from them, becos they will simply brush you through like a transparent. 

And don't worry, becos you're never part of their life, their topics with anyone will never includes you in, at all. Becos you simply don't exist in their life, at all. 

They're lidat towards EVERYONE. 

Becos of their selfless nature, they're extremely caring and helpful towards people they cared and loved. They tried to help in every ways they can, quietly, and willingly. They will defend you in your absence. 

Garnered a lot of hates due to their cool attitude. Often being gossiped and talked about, even for things they didn't say/do. And when they fight back, they're the bitch. 

2) One whom is not so real but often classified as very real cos they choose what to say/do towards every different person. Everyone thought they're forgiving, loving, caring and friendly, becos even when they dislike you, they will still be "friend" with you, for whatever reasons, nobody knows. 

They choose to stab you behind your back, you can expect whatever shit from their mouth when you're not around. 

Well liked by everyone (except those few who know their pattern very well), cos they simply know how to "por". 

So, which type you belong to? And which do you prefer?

Honestly, I belong to cat 1 cos towards people I know, I will just say directly. But towards people I don't know, I choose to keep quiet, ignore and treat you like you don't exist, cos I don't wish to waste my time on you, UNLESS you provoked me first. 

But a lot of people have been telling me that most people belong to cat b and in order to survive, I need to be ask fake as cat b. Which I really cannot do it. 


For those who do it to me, thank you, at least you remember me! Hahahahaha 

Those who know me, whom treated me as friends (and I treated them as friends too), I don't even "talk" about them. On the contrary, I'll defend them if people talk about them. This is how protective I am, as a cancerian.

But somehow or rather, I do get VERY ANNOYED when...

Direct translation: The most disgusting thing in this world is, you know how fake a person is, yet nobody can see, and everyone think he/she is so good, and you become the bad person instead. 

Fuck you can. That's precisely I'm not lidat, that's why I've so many anonymous haters. And I really mean... haters - people who dislike me for no whatsoever reason.

But you see... 

I hate wasting time on things on people whom have no power or effect in my life. I DON'T. Cos I've much better things to do. 

But it's just the very annoying one second moment whereby you will ask yourself... WHYYYYYY?!

Wednesday, August 30, 2017

What's my objective? 🤔

Lately, I've been pondering over an important issue; work - a path I need to consider carefully, thinking about all the concerns in my life. 

It's not that I'm not doing okay, I'm doing fine, up and down, busy and quiet, and this is exactly how a sales job is like. 

However, due to "no basic salary", I really cannot afford to slack, and this is tiring. 

The bad economy is affecting the whole entire global, so this is something uncomplainable. Everyone is facing it. 

A kind fellow mummy blogger (used to be) who is a dealer offered to pull me into B*rnea* (thank you very much), and I've been considering if I should try? She said I need to do something if I wish to go further in this trade. It's true. Cos Samuel said the same thing too. 

Samuel said, I'm a broker (agent), one day consumers will think, "Why should I go through her? I can find myself right?" As for the dealer's side, some will really be 'sour grapes' if they don't know me well. 

Thus, all the ponderings. 

Thinking and thinking and thinking, I rewinded back to when I first started this... 


My objective has been very very clear since the first day I started.

Which is to assist people who are too busy to source, people who are unfamiliar with the trade, people who don't even know what's a logcard, people who kena cheated badly before, people who don't trust dealers etc, to get a good and fair deal. FAIR is the keyword. 

And I do get a lot of the above (types of) customers. 

I'm a service provider, I followed through every deals closely. My reply is lightning fast, you need not have to fear for MIA dealer. After sales, I'll still provide you with service/info (within my means), if you need help. Even if we didn't manage to deal, I'll still help if I can. 

It's not very nice if I were to keep airing dealer's dirty tricks but I can prevent it from happening on your behalf behind the scene. Again, fair is the keyword. 

Then again, this is just my 一厢情愿 opinion, people who don't appreciate will only think I'm a kpo. It's okay. If you think u "know" dealers, I'm happy for you too. Most importantly is, you're able to get your vehicle with everything promised, delivered. 

良心, 不是每个人都有! 

Sigh. Back to pondering. I'll be back stronger. 💪🏻

Monday, August 21, 2017

Butt itchy! 😐

Ouch, I had a bad fall this morning, hit straight into the bone at my ass crack there - I think it's the spine. Le' bf got so worried and keep checking out on me, asked if I'm okay. Honestly, the pain didn't go off but it's not as painful as the moment it happened. THAT WAS REALLY FUCKING PAIN.

He tmd keep scaring me until I messaged my mum that I wanna see a doc (it's hard for me to see a doc, unless I really really cannot take it) if the pain didn't go off. It's okay to die, but not okay to be sick or whatever and have to trouble others to take care of you. 

So my mum erm, nagged abit, for my own good, said cannot suka suka knock here, dismantle there in the bedroom. 😬

Yah, I don't know what's wrong with me. I woke up one fine morning and decided to dismantle the bed and paint the room. That's why I said I'm so impromptu until I also cannot tahan myself. Hahahaha

The first step was to remove the DIY bed, followed by the kids' wardrobe (cos spoil until cannot liao). 

Bought this Nippon easy wash (brand new, 5L) from Carousell at $40. The color is very similar to Tiffany & Co. that blue. I likey! 😊

开工咯! 😂

Completed the whole room at freaking 4am! 😱

Really is old liao. I woke up with a crashed body the next day. No strength. LOL

Sourcing of bed, shelves etc now. Can't wait for a completed room. Brb. 

Wednesday, August 16, 2017


Just in case there's anyone here who don't understand Chinese...

I think this is so important, in every part of life. Just like selling your car, the right timing is so important. 

There will be demand when there's supply. You will get higher value for it. 

No joke. I encountered a car's value depreciated $3k in just one month recently, Asian car hor, not even Conti. 

However, if you urgently need to sell away your car NOW...

Let me help you! But please ah, don't use my quote to others, saying that I offered $XXX and they matched or counter offered by $100 (or $200) more. 🙄

Com'on. If they're sincere, why didn't they offer you their best price initially? If their initial quote is already higher than what I quoted, then fine, I hope you sell them too, since they can offer higher. I will not counter offer, don't worry. I'm not that unethical. 

See? This is what I meant. If the other party is desperate, then give him lor. What's the point I offer you a price, and the other wanna match? Hope they don't deliberately find "things" to deduct when they view the car then. Becos for my side, I'll try to hold the price offered if possible. 

Sometimes, I really can't help but to scold customers. Cos some of them are really annoying to the max. 

It's like nobody forced them to look for me, yet they doubted me. 😒 I should start charging customers who love to waste my time. They simply take advantage of my free (non obligated) service. 

Don't waste my time leh. If you've so many doubts, then don't look for me, it's this simple. Thank you. 

I'm very humble and friendly, but I'm not sibei free lor. 😤

By the way ah, just an advise to people who want to buy car, don't ask too many people and listen to too many opinions. 


Everyone is different. A like this car, B might not like it. And hor, if you realised, everyone only "hearsay" it from someone else. Who? Nobody knows. 

For used cars, it's really heng sway. Me and my bro got the same BMW 323i at the same time with the same lifespan. My car has no problem but his car got many problems. So is BMW problematic? I'd say yes, for certain models. But it's higher percentage out of that certain models. 

There's a reason why when I changed to C180, I tell nobody. I only informed my mum after I bought the car. I don't want to make myself confused. 

Till now, I've no regrets buying this car. In fact, very happy with it. You get my point? Just like a relationship, no matter what others say, 靠感觉. 

If you get together with someone just becos your parents like him/her (but you don't), will you be happy? #justsaying